Healing happens in

relationship.

From managing our own baggage
and expectations, to learning how to
accept and respect when you and
a loved one need different things,
developing healthy adult relationships
is perhaps the most complex task of our lives.

And sometimes, being in relationship is freakin’ hard!
So how do we get from hard to healing?

Do any of these below phrases feel familiar to you? If so, we might be a good fit.

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"But that happened ages ago, what does it matter now?"

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"You say you care about me, but I don't feel like you do."

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"Our fights have us going in circles, and it's exhausting."

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"I'm trying to fix things, but I can't seem to ever get it right with you."

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"I don't understand where this is coming from."

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“I’m just not sure this relationship is worth it anymore.”

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"Why is it so hard to connect anymore?"

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• "But that happened ages ago, what does it matter now?" • "You say you care about me, but I don't feel like you do." • "Our fights have us going in circles, and it's exhausting." • "I'm trying to fix things, but I can't seem to ever get it right with you." • "I don't understand where this is coming from." • “I’m just not sure this relationship is worth it anymore.” • "Why is it so hard to connect anymore?" •

Present Beings offers LGBTQ+ relational therapy
for individuals, couples/pairs, & adult families.

Hi, I’m Del, the founder
of Present Beings.
When you work with me,
your relationship is my client.

Together, we can:

  • Explore the creation and interplay
    of your dynamic.

  • Map out how the parts that are
    managing to keep you stuck.

  • Get to know how your bodies and
    nervous systems shape relating.

  • Learn about negotiating yours, mine,
    and ours     in your relationship.

  • Discover new areas of growth, possibility,
    and connection — together.

Now providing these telehealth services
in the State of Oregon:

Individual Counseling

  • Somatic focus

  • Integrating parts work/IFS

  • Coming out, gender & sexuality

  • Integrating aspects of Self

Adult Family Therapy

  • Parent & adult child dynamics

  • Healing from substance use

  • Birth order in adult siblings

  • Family development

  • Life cycle transitions, eg. aging parents

  • Neurodivergence-related issues

  • Intergenerational traumas

  • Processing whiteness

Romantic Couples

  • Neurodiversity & attachment

  • Coming out, gender & sexuality

  • Mindful marriages

  • Relationship transformations

  • Navigations of non-monogamy

Platonic
Pairs

  • Close friends facing transitions

  • Professional relationship

  • Artist & activist collaborators

  • Attachment wounds in community

  • Liberatory & feminist relationship development

  • Roommate & household dynamics

Group
Therapy

  • Groups are offered on a rolling basis

  • Head over to the GROUPS page to see what is currently being offered.